"living with death" - "The Last Talks"



Excerpts from: "The Last Talks"
India, Varanasi, 11th November 1985 3rd Discussion with Buddhists by J. Krishnamurti


Questioner #1: The brain is the source of all problems. It has created the self and also all the problems. You suggest that the brain can end the problems. Then what is the difference between that brain which has ended and the mind?

Questioner #2: You said that the brain is the source of problems and out of the brain comes the ending of problems. With that ending, the brain that remains thinks, perceives, receives intimations. What is the actual difference between that brain and the mind?

Krishnamurti: I understand, I understand. Just a minute. See, you are asking a question that involves death. Before I can answer that question I must answer what death is. There is an Italian proverb that says: All the world is going to die, perhaps even I too! Do you see the joke of it? So, what is death? We know what is birth, mother, father, all the rest of it, and the baby is born and goes through this extraordinary tragedy. It is a tragedy; it is not something happy, joyous, free. It is a bigger tragedy than any Shakespeare ever wrote. So I know what is birth. Now, what is death? I am asking this; you tell me.

Questioner #3: When we were discussing time the other day, you spoke of a `now' in which was all time, both living and death. The brain, having the capacity to see the flow of living, also has the capacity to reveal that ending which is death. That is the answer.

Krishnamurti: I said, living is attachment, pain, fear, pleasure, anxiety, uncertainty, the whole bag, and death is out there, far away. I keep a careful distance. I have got property, books, jewels; that is my life. I keep it here and death is there. I say, bring the two together, not tomorrow, but now - which means end all this now. Because that's what death is going to say. Death says you can't take anything with you; so invite death - not suicide - invite death and live with it. Death is now, not tomorrow.

Questioner #3: There is something lacking in this. I may be able to invite death now and the brain may be still for a time, but the whole thing comes back again; then the problem of life comes back.

Krishnamurti: No, no. I am attached to him, he is a friend of mine, I have lived with him, we walked together, We played together, he is my companion, and I am attached to him. Death says to me, You can't take him with you. So death tells me, Free yourself now, not ten years later. And I say, Quite right, I will be free of him. Though I am still his friend, I am not dependent on him at all. Because, I can't take him with me. What's wrong with that? You are not arguing against that?

Questioner #4: Which means, sir, you have to end all gratification...

Krishnamurti: No, I am not saying that. I said, attachment.

Questioner #4: All attachment...

Krishnamurti: That's all.

Questioner #5: Sir, is it possible to end that so long as the two bodies exist?

Krishnamurti: Oh, yes, sir. Our bodies are not tied together; they are two separate bodies. Psychologically I take him as a friend and get slowly attached to him inwardly. I am not attached to him outwardly because he goes one way and I go another - he drinks, I don't, and so on. But still he is a friend of mine. And death comes and says you can't take him with you. That is a fact. So I say, All right, I will be detached now.

Questioner #6: Sir, isn't it that the problem comes not because you get pleasure from your friend or your wife, but because you begin to use that pleasure as a fulfillment for yourself, and therefore you want a continuity of that and you want to possess that person?

Krishnamurti: Yes. Therefore, what is relationship? I won't go into it, we have no time. You see, sir, you are not meeting my point. I asked you where self-interest begins and ends. Is ending more important than anything else? - ending? And what is then that state in which there is no self-interest at all? Is it death? - which means an ending. Death means ending - ending everything. So it says, `Be intelligent, old boy, live together with death.'

Questioner #6: Which means die but keep the body. The other death is coming anyway.

Krishnamurti: Body? Give it to the birds or throw it into the river. But psychologically, this tremendous structure I have built I can't take with me.

"The Last Talks"
India, Varanasi, 11th November 1985
3rd Discussion with Buddhists
© Krishnamurti Foundation Trust


Kinfonet Editorial - For the Death Of Me...Memento mori

is a Latin phrase that may be loosely translated as "Remember that you are mortal" or "Remember your death". Indeed, much of the world's great art and literature exists because we have to die. Rebelling against the impartiality of death, the human creative impulse strives to infuse life with meaning. Life is rendered, in the eyes of the beholder, inviolable and precious despite, and perhaps even because of, its finality.

Mortality is a central life issue for every human being and is something we all have to come to terms with, in one way or another. Strangely enough though, the inevitability of our death does not factor into our everyday lives to any significant degree. We develop very careful mechanisms to keep the reality of death at bay. Our ending is an eventuality that we manage to emotionally block out. Although it is acknowledged intellectually, the fact that we'll have to die is rarely felt in any forceful way. Perhaps only when one is old and gray, or is confronted with a serious illness or the death of a loved one does the brevity of life become personally relevant.

Death is commonly regarded as the enemy of life, waiting at the far end to arrest its movement. To face death is to face the unknown. Peering into the abyss of death stirs up a variety of psychological associations - most of which trigger fear. This fear can be muted by religious beliefs or philosophical stoicism. However, the stark reality of death is so unyielding that no explanation is able to wholly prevent fear from bubbling up from time to time. Despite our best efforts, death remains a mystery.

Speculation aside, the one sure thing we can say about death is that it is a cessation of life as we know it. For those of us who choose not to ignore this fact, there are various reactions. Some embrace the motto, "carpe diem" - or "seize the day"- which prods us to engage fully in life, urging us to make the most of the short time we have. For others, death spoils all appetite for life. The transient nature of our existence produces a strong sense that life is "much ado about nothing". For such a person, somewhat nihilistic in leaning, a strong sense of futility accompanies any investment in worldly pursuits.

" Death, love and life are one and the same; but we have divided life, as we have divided the earth. "

Rather than regarding death as being pitted against life, waiting at the end to snuff it out, as it were, Krishnamurti views death as an organic part of life itself. By blocking out death we have effectively ignored a very fundamental dimension of each and every element of nature, namely that its existence is finite. Even as it comes into being, every thing bears the seed of its own demise somehow within it. This ubiquitous quality of transience is an attribute just like any other and is entirely perceivable should we choose to look.

Not only does Krishnamurti stress that death is not divorced from life, he even goes so far as to encourage us to actually "invite death". To elucidate what he means by this psychological death or "dying while living" he asks us to consider what will happen when we actually, physically die.

"Both biologically and psychologically the ending of something is death. "

Death is a complete and non-negotiable ending. It doesn't care about the importance of our unfinished business or our general readiness, but can be sudden and without forewarning. "Death says, you can't take anything with you". We have a multitude of attachments, we cling to certain people, identify with ideas and beliefs and are invested in all the things we still would like to experience or accomplish in our lifetime. These attachments grow stronger in proportion to the time spent nurturing and cultivating them. Seeing that at our death all these are going to be wrenched away, Krishnamurti asks if it isn't simply a matter of intelligence to negate these attachments now.

On another occasion, Krishnamurti asks: "Have you ever died to a pleasure?" To experiment with "ending voluntarily" a desire, habit or attachment without any fuss, in much the same impersonal way that "death" would do it. "Just give it up, just brush it aside as you would some stupid thing..."

As always, Krishnamurti is careful to include a host of qualifiers in his descriptions of this subtle action of "dying while living" in order to emphasize that there can be no choice, no decision, no struggle, none of the emotional drama normally associated with an ending. Despite his meticulous use of language, statements like "ending voluntarily" or "inviting death" naturally fossilize in our minds as directives, as something to be applied.

Our best efforts notwithstanding, there is an underlying intellectual understanding that death is an action of sorts which we can attempt to bring about. But to do so, of course, would mean that we have completely missed the crux of death. To die is to continue no longer, fullstop. Any form of effort or will involves the future and as such indicates the movement of continuity. Death, by its very nature, is instantaneous; having no duration, it can occur only in the immediate present. Being wholly independent of will, the phenomenon of death cannot be the result of some action on our part. In short, death cannot be summoned.

"We never face anything final, absolute; we always go around it; and that is why we dread death."

Attempting to come to terms with death unfailingly invokes in us some form of reaction. In fact, our various responses to death shed light on the myriad ways in which the mind, predicated on the instinct to survive, personalizes death in order to assure its own continuity. For example, in the face of the nothingness that is death there is often a response of despair. This is one form of continuity, a refusal to end, to die, even if life means a miserable struggle. In fact no amount of suffering seems excruciating enough to provoke the impulse to simply die to it psychologically.

Not that thought is incapable of giving up something, but it needs a replacement equal in value or even better, a reward for letting go. Uninvited ending is considered a punishment, associated with pain, something to be shied away from. Death, uncompromisingly, doesn't offer promise or reward. To thought, even an explanation, a good reason for ending would suffice, because answer and resolution both signify continuity, which in turn reinforces the validity of its own structure. Unlike thought, death has no utilitarian agenda.

For us, "time is of the essence" in more ways than one. The demand for continuity causes the mind to be rooted in what Krishnamurti terms psychological time - a virtual time-space continuum we first create and then fill with the things of thought -entertainment, noise, distraction, plans. Additionally, it serves as a passageway to a better future in which we hope to find fulfillment - the "what should be". To Krishnamurti the basic problem is that we are perpetually in a state of seeking, craving experience, which necessitates the creation of "psychological time".

" So to live before death is to live with death; which means that one is living in a timeless world. One is living a life in which everything that one acquires is constantly ending, so that there is always a tremendous movement, one is not fixed in a certain place. "

By relegating death to the end of life, Krishnamurti suggests, we condemn ourselves to anxiously living in the "dividing gap", always keeping one eye on the inevitable. Having carefully staked out this time interval, we desperately cling to it, as it is all we have. This interval is not just all we have and all we know, it is all we are. It is the house of thought and also the place where the "me" dwells with its respective attachments, pleasures, pain, loneliness and illusions. To Krishnamurti, psychological time, thought and the sense of self are all one and the same.

Once it becomes clear that all our attempts to deal with death are actually very subtle mechanisms to block out its reality, we are left with an uneasy feeling that we may be encapsulated in a bubble of our own making - that there may be "much more to life than it's dreamed of in our philosophy". The conditioned response to this perception is usually to ask, "What then does exist outside of my thought-bound experience?" Krishnamurti is quick to point out, however, that this is a wrong question. "Face what you know. You can't face something that you don't know." "Inviting death" then is to invite intelligence and not to chase after spiritual rainbows. It is simply an ever open invitation to see reality as it actually is, to take into account our entire experience of life - unfiltered, without judgment, without reaction - which is nothing other than to be aware of the content of our consciousness as it manifests at any given moment.

In fact, the whole conglomerate of the "me", of thought, of psychological time exists entirely in the present moment and, as such, can be accessed simply and directly - requiring no analysis, necessitating no time.

"If thought frees itself from the past, it ceases to be thought. "

The difficulty is that we understand "psychological time" to be a long drawn out string reaching far back into our past and forward into the depths of our future. It represents the countless elements in our psyche with their convoluted inter-relationships. However, *we easily forget that psychological time is no time at all, but a construct of thought, our own invention. Any activity of our mind can only take place in the present moment.* *This protracted time interval of "psychological time", masquerading as a continuum, exists exclusively and totally in the present.* Thus the active, living present is not, as sometimes fancied, a spiritual shangri-la, but rather the "me" in motion. This movement is ever accessible: "The now is ever existent; even if you escape into the future, the now is ever present."

"Truth is in the silent observation of what is, and it is truth that transforms what is." Genuine insight into the distorting nature of our thinking gives birth to a passionate demand for truth. It is this energy, this passion, this love of truth, of life that fuels total awareness. The intensity of this awareness is such that thought naturally refrains from usurping the whole spectrum of our reality allowing other aspects of life to come streaming in, including death. And this might be the action of "dying while living" of which Krishnamurti speaks. It may even be "reality, it may be what we call God, that most extraordinary something that lives and moves, yet has no beginning and no end."

What Do You Think?It is the opinion of the editorial writers that Krishnamurti is a modern-day example of a truly free human being. These editorials celebrate our interest in this most extraordinary man and what he has to say. The main intention here is neither to represent nor to re-present Krishnamurti, but simply to foster engagement with his works. Needless to say, the fascinating and intricate nature of Krishnamurti's writings demand that they be read carefully and at first hand.


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